10步找到你的奋斗动力
Alu · 2010-05-18 20:00 · 43829 次点击
.TheImportanceofFindingOutwhatMotivatesYou
let'sfindoutwhattheimportanceofmotivationexactlyis.Simplyput,motivationisthatdrivingforcewhichallowsyoutoachieveyourgoalsandgoafterwhatyouwantinlife.Ifyouwanttochangeyourpersonalityforthebetter,getapromotionatwork,startanewhabit,beabetterpersonwhoispartofthecommunity,becomeabetterparentforyourkid–allofthesethingswouldbeeasieraccomplishedifyouareproperlymotivated.
找出自己的梦想
你的动力源是什么?动力是你生活的推力,是通往成功的阶梯,无论你的理想是什么:完善自己的性格,升职,培养一个新的兴趣,你必须找到自己的动力所在。
2.Focusononegoalatatime.
Thisshouldbepartneredwiththefactthatyoushouldmakesurethatyourshort-termgoalsallhelpinachievingyourlong-termgoals.Oneofthebestwaysforyoutofocusononegoalatatimeistomakeadiaryofyourgoals–yes,writeitdown–sothatyouwillhaveavisualrepresentationofthethingsthatyouwanttoachieveratherthanlettingitallgetlostinyourhead.
拥有目标
为长远的目标设立小的短期目标,你可以将它写在日记本上。
3.Getridofallthedistractionswhichmightpreventyoufromachievingyourgoal.
Let'ssaythatyouareawriterwhowantstofinishabook.Howcanyoutypeawayonyourkeyboardonechapterafteranotheriftherearemanydistractionssurroundingyouliketelevision,friendschatteringawayorthelureofaimlesslybrowsingthroughtheInternet.Inorderforyoutostayproperlymotivated,makesuretosteerclearofanydistractions.
远离可能让自己泄气的事物
如果你想写成一本书,你不可能完成如果你整天守着电视,和朋友聊天。因此,你必须远离可能影响自己的人或者物。
4.Completelyblockoutanynegativeinfluences.
Makesurethatyouarecompletelyblockingoutanynegativeinfluencesinyourlife.Ifyoufeelthatyouarebeingdistractedfromyourgoalbyaproblemwhichdoesnotseemtogoaway,askyourselfwhatyoucandotoeliminatesuchachallengeanddistractioninyourlife.Maybeyouarebeingsidetrackedbynegativethoughtsandfeelingsbecauseyouhavenofaithinyourself.Addressingtherootoftheproblem,completelyblockingoutanynegativedistractionsandthinkingpurelypositivethoughtsisthebestwayforyoutodevelopmotivationinyoureverydaylife.
避开负面影响
如果你发现自己碰到了一个很难解决的问题,那么想想自己可以做什么,尽量避免或缩小这个问题带来的影响。你可能被自己的消极思想引导了,不相信自己。
5.ConstantlyWorkAtMotivatingYourself
Agoaldoesn'tdoyoumuchgoodunlessyouareconstantlythinkingabout,andworkingtowardsit.Writedownyourgoalandplaceitsomewherethatyouwillseeitatleast1-2timesaday.Ifyouhaveaweightlossgoal,placeyourwrittengoalbesidetherefrigerator.Ifyourgoalistogetphysicallystronger,placeyourwrittengoalnearyourweightbenchsoyoucanseeitwhenyouareworking
朝着目标奋斗
目标永远不能实现,除非你靠着它一步步前进,每天提醒自己1-2次自己的目标是什么。
6.Cutpicturesoutofthecarthatyouwant,ortheTV,stereo,golfclubs,whateveryouareaimingfor,andputthemupsomewhereyoucanseethemeveryday.Onthefridgedoor,oronthewallnexttothecomputer.Whenyoulooksay"That'smycar"or"That'smyTV".Visualizingtheseitemsasyourswillhelpkeepyoumotivated.
将你的奋斗目标放在自己可以看见的地方,每天鼓励自己。
7.Anyonewhohashadseriousissueswithmotivationknowsthatsomeonetellingyouto"staymotivated"isabitdaft,sinceyouweren'tinamotivatedstatetobeginwith,andassuch,ishardtostayin.Howeveranyonecangetthemselvesmotivated.
自己激励自己。别人再怎么激励你,都是徒劳的,你必须自己坚定奋斗的目标,才可能有奋斗的动力。
8.Don'tjustthinkthatyou'rethebest,proveittoyourself.Youropinionmattersthemostinyourownmotivation,butyouknowwhenyou'repullingyourownlegastoyouraccomplishments.It'sfareasiertojuststartdealingwithyourresponsibilitiesandknowing,withanincrediblystrongepistemicjustification(bywhichImean,youKNOWthis)thatyoucanhandlewhatcomesupbecauseyouhavebefore,thantryingtoknowyoucantackleitbecauseyou'reallwarmandfuzzyinside.Warmandfuzzyaccomplishesverylittle,butneitherdoesbeatingyourselfup.
证明自己是最好的。不要总是告诉自己,自己是最好的,用时间来证明更有效。
9.Rewardyourselfwhenyoucompleteapartofyourtask,yourmindwillrecognisethisandyouwillwanttodowhateveryoudidtogiveyourselfatreatmore.
认真做好每一个小目标。
10.Getbackupifyoufall.Startagain.Startwhereyouarecomfortable.Gettingbackuptotryagain,nomatterhowsmallthattask,goal,activity,errand,orwhim;Ifyoucancompleteit,youarealreadybackonyourway.Getup,don'tlookback.Cheers!
失败了继续前进。在自己失败的地方重新站起来,继续奋斗。