增强个性的十个方法
Alu · 2010-05-18 20:02 · 39216 次点击
1.了解你的个性
Knowwhatconstitutesstrengthincharacter.Strengthincharacterarethequalitiesthatallowitspossessortoexercisecontroloverhisinstinctsandpassions,tomasterhimself,andtoresistthemyriadtemptationsthatconstantlyconfrontus.Moreover,strengthincharacterisfreedomfrombiasesandprejudicesofthemind,andtolerance,love,andrespectforothers.
了解你个性中最本质的东西。它能够帮助你有效地控制自己的情绪和自己,能够禁得住诱惑,并尊重他人。
2.积极面对人生
Focusonthepositivesinlife,andgivenothoughttothenegatives.Aphysicianoncesaidtoayoungwomancomplainingofallsortsoftroublesforwhichsheaskedofhimacure:"Don'tthinkofthem:itisthemostpowerfulofallcures."Physicalandmentalpainscanbealleviatedbyeffortofthewilltodivertthemindintooppositechannels,andexacerbatedbythedwellinguponthem.
积极面对人生。一位哲人曾经说过这样一个故事:一个年轻的妇女跑到他面前求助,她觉得生活处处不如意,请这位哲人给她想个办法,哲人这样回答"不要想这些事情,你就好了".
3.勇敢无畏
Conquerallfears.Timidityisastumblingblocktosuccess.Entertainnosuperstition,baseduponsuperficialobservations,butacceptsfactsbasedonlyuponsolidreason.Buildnotyourfoundationuponsand,butuponarock.Onceyouovercomefear,youwillhavethestrengthincharactertothink,toresolve,andtoactvictorious.
勇敢无畏。胆怯是成功的拦路石。不要轻信,每一件事都是有原因的。
4.寻求真理
Seekthetruth.Favourreasonoveremotion.Themanwithastrongcharacterwillexamineallthefactswiththehead,andnotbebiasedbyemotionsfromtheheart.Hewillsettlesallmattersuponreasonalone,andnotentanglehimselfinthechaosofsensations.
寻求真理。理性大于感性。一个有个性的人会用自己的大脑去琢磨每件事,而不是凭感觉行事。
5.领导者
Beneitherapessimistnoranoptimist,butaleader.Apessimistcomplainsaboutthewind,anoptimistexpectstheadversewindconditiontoimprove,buttheleadertakesactiontoadjustthesails.
做生活的领导者,而不是悲观者或乐观者。悲观者抱怨风,乐观者等待风停,而领导者是想办法改变这个局势。
6.抑制冲动
Guardagainstirrationalimpulses.Alwayslookbeforeyouleap.Freeyourselffromenslavementbyyourownpassions.Inordinate,sensualappetitesarethemarksofaweakcharacter.
抑制冲动。三思而后行,不要被自己的感情所控制,感性的人是懦弱的。
7.知足常乐
Becontentwithwhatyouhave.Becontentwithyourlot.Appreciateyourownvaluesandthatwhichyouhave.
知足常乐。珍惜你所拥有的一切。
8.适当冒险
Bebraveenoughtotakecalculatedrisks.Ifyoushunthebattle,youmustforegothevictoryandthejoyassociatedtherewith.Neitherbecowardly,noraloof,norevadeyourrightfulduties,butbecourageoustocontributetotheprogressofmankind.
适当冒险。有准备地冒险。如果你避开了一场战斗,你必然会失去胜利喜悦。
9.控制自己的情绪
Learntomasteryourfeelings.Letnotanythingotherthansoundreasondictateyourdecisionsintheconductofeverydaylife.Suppressinordinateimpulses,andfleefromtemptationsassoonastheyappear.Itisalwaysdifficult,andattimesimpossible,nottoyieldtofeelingsdeepwithinthehabitationofyoursoul,butyoucanlearntosuppresstheirmanifestations,andovercomethemwithcommonsenseandsoundjudgment.
控制自己的情绪。每天都要认真地活,而不是理所当然。接受诱惑的考验。
10.冷静沉着
Becalm,andyouwillhavesmoothsail.Becalminallthings.Calmnessisastateofquietudethatenablesyoutoconcentrateandreassembleyourdivergentthoughtsandmeditatewithprofit.Comtemplationleadstoideas,andideasleadtoopportunties,andopportunitiesleadtosuccess.
冷静沉着。冷静可以使你集中注意力,并全心投入你所从事的工作。冷静可以让你有好的想法,想法让你有机会,而机会就是成功的前提。